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Does your loved one just not get you? Do constant misunderstandings make you want to bang your head against the wall?

Check out this comedy hour of role-playing that you will relate to, benefit from, and be entertained by all at the same time! Each scenario is more hilarious than the next!

Thank you to improv comedians Rachael Drummond, Taylor Loeb, Julie Mann, and Jessica Young for rocking your mustaches!

Some of Leah’s tips include:

  • Remember the importance of tone and volume.
  • Learn to say “I guess you didn’t realize …” or “I’m sorry I wasn’t clear …”
  • Remember to start with appreciation or a compliment.
  • Pick your battles! Is this one worth it?
  • “It would really help me if … xyz. Is there anything I can do to make that easier?”
  • Be vulnerable. “How can we fix our problem together? I can’t solve it on my own.”
  • Some situations are predictable. If you know it will get sticky, discuss it beforehand.
    • Remember the 3 P’s:
      • If it’s Predictable, it’s Preventable with a Pre-conversation!

Try This at Home:

This week, try to communicate through a misunderstanding. The key will be: instead of saying, “You just don’t understand me!”, acknowledge that he can’t read your mind and explain yourself.

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