Maybe there is hope for other people’s marriages- but not mine! My husband puts in zero effort!

Join Leah to finally understand why your man may not be putting sufficient work into your marriage.

Leah’s Points To Ponder:

• Join at 34:44 for insights into why our men just don’t put in the effort!
• Often, we don’t receive properly. We tell our husbands that he bought the wrong things from the store, he didn’t wash up properly, or he didn’t do things right…we (often inadvertently) put him down so much that he stops trying.
• A man’s nature is so different to ours that even if he is putting in effort, it will never be enough for our standards.
• Women by nature have a pull to work on marriage whilst men in general simply do not.
• Men don’t understand women, we need to gently guide them through our feelings and needs.
• Often us women are hugely underappreciated, and our depletion can make us feel as though we are the only ones putting in the effort.
• Perhaps he is putting in effort, just not in the area we deeply need. We need to examine our needs versus our wants to help guide our husbands’ efforts into fulfilment of our needs.

Try This At Home:

At least one time, consider if what you are currently asking your husband to do for you is a want or a need. If it’s a want, drop it, and report back on what happened.