Looking for a quick fix to a better marriage?!
You just found it! Join Leah for Part 2 of Dice Advice and get some life-changing and easy tips to shift your marriage.
Leah rolls a dice and has to give that many answers to surprise questions…
- 3 ways to show your husband he’s your priority
- If a kid is talking to you and your husband asks you something, tell the kid to wait.
- Tell people he’s your priority.
- Don’t sit in his seat or let other people sit there.
- 4 Ways to be a more encouraging wife
- Get out of your own head.
- don’t criticize your husband.
- Decrease expectations of your husband.
- Thank him for anything he does
- 2 Things to say to your husband when he gets home instead of “how was your day?”
- I’m so thrilled that you’re home.
- This is what I dreamed of since I was a little girl.
- 4 Ways to show appreciation without spending money
- Make his favorite food
- Give him a complement
- Tell him how much you want to be around him and go on a walk together.
- Thank him for things he anyway does
- 5 Text messages to send your husband during the day
- Just thinking of you
- Can’t wait until you get home
- I hope you’re having a great day
- Thank you for *fill in blank*
- You’re my best friend
- 3 Things you should never say to your husband
- Never say the D word. (divorce)
- Never say: “I should have married that other guy.”
- Never say: “I regret marrying you.”
- 3 Tips to rebuild emotional connection
- Listen
- Make the place feel safe
- Know your triggers that cause you to disconnect
- 5 Ideas of what to do instead of going out on a date night
- Walk after shabbos lunch
- Sit on the back porch with a drink (without kids.)
- Do errands together like going shopping
- Do a fun activity where you won’t end up talking about the kids. Eg bowling or golf.
- Play a game together
- 1 Thing to bring spontaneity into the house
- Journal a whole list of crazy things
- 3 Ways to handle the desire to give silent treatment
- Saying that you’re very upset and need time to process it
- Introspect where in your childhood you saw silent treatment happening
- Admit that you do it, it’s unhealthy and ask him for help to change
- 3 creative ways to saying “thank you”
- If he brings you water, say: “this water is delicious,”
- “I’m so glad you brought me that water, I was so thirsty.”
- “I feel so taken care of.”
- 2 Tips to bring instant closeness
- Compliment your husband
- Smile and give a warm welcome
Be sure the catch Dice Role 1: Getting Him To Help
