What do you mean I should own up to my marriage mistakes…My husband is the one who makes all the mistakes in this marriage!
Join Leah and discover tools which will ensure that in each moment you are being the best you possible and that your actions aren’t causing harm to your husband.
Leah’s Points To Ponder:
- Zipping our lips and shifting our mindset can earn us huge rewards.
- Thinking to ourselves in the moment, who do we want to be and what outcome will this action achieve?
- Story time! Tune in at 23:10 for three marriage-mistake scenarios for you to judge!
- Three common marriage mistakes:
- Expecting perfection from our husbands- we have a picture in our mind which only leads to disappointment.
- Unwillingness to forgive- by becoming more forgiving, G-d himself will be more forgiving to us.
- Blaming- it’s so easy to pin the blame on the person we spend the most time with.
- A simple but effective tool to ensure we don’t make a marriage mistake is to ask ourselves: “Am I being too harsh?”
- This will help us to introspect in the moment and catch ourselves as we grow into the softer, better version of us!
- Tune back in at 51:29 to hear how using this tool could radically change the outcomes from the three scenarios mentioned earlier!
Try This At Home:
At least one time this week ask yourself am I being too harsh?
