I don’t need conflict resolution…I just need my husband to stop doing everything wrong!
Join Leah to see how even when it seems it’s all his fault, blaming him will actively make the situation worse. Time to quit the blaming, quit the victimhood and become empowered!
Leah’s Points To Ponder:
- The blame game (which we’re all guilty of!) harshly places a husband and wife against each other.
- Blaming doesn’t make us powerful, it makes us powerless. Having emunah(faith) helps us realize that challenges are handmade from G-d and are necessary for spiritual growth. This will help us to stop pointing our finger at our husbands (even when justified!)
- When we choose to support our husband instead of bashing him, more bracho(blessing) will come into our home.
- The no blame game is a valuable tool- instead of asking whose fault is it, ask how can I improve things?
- Using this, we go from victimhood to managing our circumstances, we are less resentful and incredibly, by putting in the effort to take action, G-d himself will help.
- Listen in at 24:44 to hear how lessening your load could lessen your resentment towards your husband and prevent the blaming.
- It feels great to blame but it distances us from our husbands. In the moment choose not to blame but to take action.
Try This At Home:
One time this week instead of blaming your husband, ask yourself how can I improve things?
