Want to listen in on a conversation between a Rabbi & a wife of an addict?
We’ve brought back Ora (our Get Real guest from 2 weeks ago) so she could ask Rabbi Luger her questions directly. Join Leah with Rabbi Luger for an insightful conversation about how Ora, and wives of addicts, can manage life with an addict and come out stronger on the other side.
Facing the Truth with Honesty and Love
When a spouse struggles with addiction, it is so easy to find yourself walking on eggshells. Ora bravely opened up about the heavy weight of that reality: the bills are being paid, but the late nights, rationalizations, and broken trust linger right beneath the surface. Rabbi Luger gently cuts through the noise to remind us that if a habit is hurting your marriage and home, it simply isn’t harmless moderation. Lasting change can’t begin with deflecting blame; it starts with genuine accountability.
Put Your Oxygen Mask on First
As loving wives, our deepest instinct is often to rescue, manage, and fix everything ourselves. But Rabbi Luger shares a vital reminder: your first priority must be taking care of you. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and you do not have to carry this alone. Reaching out to a support group like Al-Anon or connecting with women who have walked this road gives you the emotional footing, strength, and clarity you need.
There Is Genuine Hope Ahead
Walking on eggshells doesn’t protect the peace, but having structured, non-confrontational guidance can open the door to real recovery. Healing isn’t just about stopping the behavior—it is about doing the internal work to rebuild trust and character. With the right professional support and healthy boundaries, marriages really can heal, and the warm, connected home you long for is truly possible.
Catch Ora’s full story HERE
