Why is my husband incapable of ever appreciating me enough! What’s wrong with him? Or…what’s wrong with me?!

Join Leah and gain an understanding of why you crave appreciation so deeply and more importantly, how to get that appreciation you desperately want and need!

Leah’s Points To Ponder:

• The solution starts with the understanding that us women have an empty appreciation bucket and once we understand this need, our happiness can skyrocket.
• When we solicit appreciation from our husband (it does not come naturally to him, so stop waiting for it!) it creates a bond which glues the relationship, plus we get the appreciation we need- win win! But know that soliciting appreciation is a lifelong job.
• The following six methods can bring a sweetness which is available in every relationship:

[WARNING: Some of these methods might sound completely cringe BUT choose what you think will work with your husband- they really work!]

• • Prompt- guiding our husbands to praise us in a way we want to hear.
  • The Ventriloquist- playfully saying what we wish he would be saying.
  • Ask Directly- expressing the need for appreciation and literally asking for it.
  • The List- asking our husband to hear us vent about everything we did and then asking him to say wow.
  • The Prearranged Challenge- giving our husbands the heads up that we might need his emotional support for an upcoming challenging situation.
  • The Gift Method- Choosing our own gifts and asking our husband to give them to us.
• The more appreciated we are, the more we can accomplish and the happier we’ll be.

Try This At Home:

Do one of these appreciation methods this week.