Frustrated By Your Husband!

Are you frustrated by all the annoying things your husband does?! Is this a rhetorical question, Leah?! 🤪

It’s #MarriageMinuteMonday and what better way to start off your week than by learning how to not allow your husband’s annoyances to get you?!

Notice The Stuff Your Husband Does Right

How about trying out this #MarriageSecret — start noticing the stuff your husband does right. Rather than focus on the negative, start to jot down and keep tabs on all the stuff your husband is doing that’s good – from the big things, such as providing for the family, to the small things, like the fact that he locked the back door and turned off the lights before he went to bed. You may be surprised to see that throughout the day your husband does hundreds of things rights and only a handful of things that are annoying. But human tendency, especially when it comes to spouses, is to only take notice when it’s an annoyance. We tend to take for granted the good those closest to us are doing for us on a daily basis.

Stop Expecting Perfection In Your Husband

Start keeping a list – “my husband got ready for work quietly without waking me up, he remembered to turn on the coffee pot, he put the toilet seat down 🤪, he shut the refrigerator door”…the list will go on and on and on.

Stop expecting perfection in your husband. Start writing down what your husband is doing right and let that be your focus.

Listen, you may still get annoyed with your husband — I mean, let’s face it — men=annoyance 😂 — but the more you focus on the positive the more your annoyance at your husband will lessen.

Try this out today!