I gave up my own money…why won’t he give me access to his?!
Join Leah for a Get Real with Kayli- an expressive and growing woman who gave up a lucrative career to dedicate herself fully to her home, whilst her husband is doing something which triggers traumas and fears of hers. Listen in as Leah helps her unpack this multi-layered struggle.
Kayli’s husband comes from money, she comes from poverty. She worked hard to become a professional and leave that financial bracket, but got married and dedicated herself to her home instead. She’s stunted herself to be her husband’s teammate and meanwhile, he has an account and won’t give her access to it. She doesn’t care about the money; it’s deeper than that. She wants to operate as a team.
Leah highlights Kayli’s unprocessed childhood pain and triggers around money. When she feels financially vulnerable today, it doesn’t just feel like a present-day disagreement; it feels like being that little girl again with no security. Leah advises her how to reframe her story and shows her the goal is not to suppress the pain, but to process it so it doesn’t hijack the marriage.
Listen in as Leah helps Kayli separate the past from the present to reach the validation and unity she’s craving. Leah powerfully gets Kayli to silence her inner voice which says she stunted herself which is weaponizing her sacrifice into regret.
This is a deep and emotional conversation worth listening to.
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