Here it is! The divorcee’s guide to remarriage so you can move forward to be the best future wife ever!

In this episode, Leah interviews three anonymous divorcees to find out what worked before and what to work on for the future.

Check out the whole show to see Leah getting real with these impressive ladies!

Here are the main take-aways:

• Seek rabbinical guidance and/or therapy to work through issues from your past (and if issues come up in your future marriage).
• Ask yourself what you might have done (however small) to contribute to the divorce. We all make mistakes and we all have areas to improve.
• Do what you need to do to stop blaming your spouse (even if it’s accurate) and learn to forgive him. Blame is disempowering. Finding what YOU can do to move forward is truly empowering!
• Make a clear list on paper of what you NEED in a spouse (e.g. if you grew up in a home of untrustworthy people, you need someone who is a paragon of integrity).
• Ask yourself what you are going to bring to your future marriage to make it the best it can be. Be as specific as possible. You have so much to offer!
• Give yourself credit for the strides you have made from the person you were then to the person you are now. What you went through is so hard and you are so strong to even be reading this right now!

Try This at Home:

Empower yourself by finding one thing to work on that you didn’t work on in your first marriage. Reward yourself for the work you are doing!