Marriage is great…until that stark realization of: “I married the wrong guy!”

Join Leah and explore how to handle this, whether it’s an occasional faint whisper in the back of your mind or a blaring daily reality.

Leah’s Points to Ponder:

• We all have expectations of how life should be… these expectations can ruin our life.
  • The disparity between our dreams and reality can be so huge it can rob us of contentment in our life.
• The Torah teaches that all blessing comes from G-d to the husband and then to the wife. He is the source of blessing; the wife holds it.
  • The bigger the vessel the wife is, the more he  can give to her. We need to shift our mindset from wrong guy to blessed guy.
• Men are different and we need to embrace this difference…we want our men to be manly!
• Our man can never please us if we have a perfect picture of how he should
• Our husband is part of G-d’s unique master plan for our life and our growth. There is absolutely no such thing as marrying the wrong guy.
• Examining our picture and expectations is the first step. Saying we married the wrong guy is a cop out and an obstacle to taking the necessary action to become victor over victim.
• The more love we shower on our husband, the more love and contentment we will feel in our marriage.

Try This At Home:

Find one thing this week that you’re grateful for about your husband that you didn’t notice before.