Rabbi Yaakov Bender Feeling Disconnected Recuperado 01

Feeling Disconnected with Rabbi Bender

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I’m failing as a mother and failing as a wife…help!

Join Leah as she interviews Rabbi Yaakov Bender and be blown away by the Rov’s extensive stories and incredible shalom bayis advice. It’s time to be a more connected wife and mother.

Points to Ponder:

  • Encourage a husband, empathize with him and listen to him.
  • Be with your family, sit with them and show them you’re immersed in being with them.
  • The time you give your children will stay with them forever. They need you. Make it your business to be available. Listen to them and show them they’ve been heard.
  • Don’t be busier with your phone than you are with your family.
  • Women have the most important job in the world; they’re building the future of klal yisroel.
  • It’s important for women to go out and work whether you need the money or not.
  • Put time limits on your phone or it becomes avoda zara.
  • Also with children, don’t ban everything but put time limits.
  • Love children, give them time and show them affection.
  • One action to shift a marriage today is to write your husband a note, with a small gift. Notes get forgotten about, keep the romance alive by remembering each other.

 

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