What happens when we bring out the worst in each other and things have escalated to the point of no return?!
Join Leah and discover five steps to building a relationship even on a foundation of terrible habits and learn to become a skilled sailor even in rough seas.
Leah’s Points To Ponder:
- There is so much a wife can do to improve the situation and break the cycle- this starts with a mind shift from looking at how our husbands can (and jolly well should!) improve to looking at ourselves and introspecting.
- Tips to navigate and sail your way to becoming the best wife:
- Get in dress uniform- educate yourself and learn strategies to become the best you possible through books/talks/therapy and introspection.
- Clear the deck- remove all obstacles which block you from taking care of your husband and accept the job of prioritizing your husband.
- Marching orders- keep a journal of habits to work on and plan how to handle sticky situations which come up and allow yourself leeway to mess up.
- Send out an SOS- tell your husband you’re working on things and ask him to allow you to grow at your own pace. Sailors, listen in at timecode 23:12 for a training session on how to perfectly send out an SOS.
- Set sail- choose something to work on and go with it. This will be trial and error, but don’t give up on yourself; fall and try again.
- When you work on shalom(peace) you will voyage far.
- You have the power to become the best wife you can, using introspection and determination you can turn your ship around!
Try This At Home:
Keep a journal of introspection of which habits you want to work on and choose ONE.
