Is ‘Suzy’ still filing for divorce or not?

Join Leah as she follows up with Suzy to see if there are any improvements which have resuscitated her marriage and whether this marriage can be saved!

Leah’s Points To Ponder:

• The world tells us we shouldn’t need external approval- this is a big lie and is not the Torahway! We are created as humans who certainly do need other’s approval.
• Any small appreciation our husband gives, we need to allow to penetrate. Then we need to reflect to them that their appreciation made us feel good.
• There are different forms of closeness, and we need to analyse our expectations of what closeness is.
• Sometimes it’s not that a husband doesn’t show love, but we don’t feel that love.
• It’s possible that we hold our husbands at a distance because we’re afraid to be vulnerable and allow him close.
• Listen in at 20:16 to hear how marriage is the perfect test to help us reach our perfection.
• Communicate things that annoy you in a sweet, funny way.
• Sometimes we can’t change the logistics of life, but we can change how we hold it.
• It helps to shift anger by trying to find a way to feel compassion.
• It’s important to mourn our unmet hopes and dreams but then to focus on: “What can I do about it now?” First acknowledge- yes, this cup is half empty, but then look what the other half is filled with!
• Everyone suffers in some way from not marrying their dream husband- knowing that everyone has their own pain and disappointments can help with our healing.
• Listen in at 40:40 to hear an amusing analogy which will help you feel more acceptance towards your burdens.
• Holding on to negativity prevents us from seeing and feeling the positive. When you see the positive, grow it and thank him!
• Instead of being our husband’s prosecuting attorney, we need to shift ourselves to be his defence and actively look for what he is doing right. Then acknowledge it!

Try This At Home:

One time this week, notice when your husband does something to get closer to you.